Dear Jared, I’ve written this letter to you at a time of plenty and smooth sailing. When all the stars are seem to be aligned. But as the days can’t be dark and bleak all the time, so goes that the days of sun and harvest may not last forever. All things in nature have a balance; and do expect the reversion to mean to counter balance the pendulum swings in life’s fortune. When the darkest of days do appear and all seems lost, I do hope you still have the presence of mind to re-read the words I am about to say – for you can distrust everyone; but how can you trust me not? I am you. Get a grip on yourself What’s the worst that can happen? 1)     Material possession lost? It can be regained. Remember how you came to this world? And you can’t bring it along in your next voyage. Travel light. 2)     Relationships lost? Yes, this is even more painful than possessions lost. Give time the chance to heal your heart. Lots of time…..  Let go. 3)     Dreams lost? Indeed this may be the biggest pain and fear I have for you. For a man without dreams is like the walking dead….. I shudder to think such a day may come! I have no solution for you as I don’t know what I don’t know….. But I do hope the below suggestion will be of use. Breathe Yes, take one breath at a time. For where there is life, there is hope! You may give up on material possessions and relationships, but never ever give up hope on me! I know you are hurting. And the world around you seems so very dark and cold. You are alone. But don’t you dare give up on me! Breathe! Yes, take another breath. That’s it! Rest, hibernate, and hide yourself. It’s OK. But keep on breathing. I know not how long it will take; but I do know that if the wild flower can bloom in the most inhospitable desert, so can you! Wait for the summer rain. It will come. Be patient. You have all the time in the world. From the ashes of despair, the phoenix will arise. I wish you well, Jared Seah P.S.  No, I have not forgotten it. I know you will ask what if I received news my days are numbered and cut short…. If I am living the life of my dreams, with fulfilling relationships, and have enough – what’s there to regret? You have lived a full life. Move on with a smile you silly man! You should be so lucky! About the Author: "Hi! I'm a Singaporean working in Athens, Greece. I aspire to be like the swan that's here and gone. And if need be, I'll rather be the hammer than the nail. Yes, it's from that song. 123, Away, I rather sail away.... (El Condor Pasa)" Singapore Man of Leisure (welcome to my blog; just google it!) This post was written by a guest contributor. Please see their details in the post above. If you'd like to guest post for TheFinance.sg, feel free to contact me for details about how YOU can share your tips and knowledge with our community.