It was more than 10 years ago when I was still very fresh from school into the working world. One day my computer ICQ alerted “Ooh Ooh! Surprisingly, one uni acquaintance named GJ initiated the chat and invited me for lunch over weekend. I am open and more than happy to get to know a new friend better. So “Yes”, I replied.

The lunch was at Shenton way Burger King The venue seems weird for me, but I was too naively kind to ask why. Just minutes into lunch, with my burger half-finished, I was told that we need to make a move to another place. I follow suit, just to be kind and polite but smelling rat! Very soon, I appeared at a seminar of over hundred. So the lunch was obviously an excuse, the main motive was for me to attend the seminar.

I was told …