There is plenty of well-intended advices at my work. Being new to my role, many told me I need to be firm and is “too nice”. My boss told me I didn’t communicate enough.

 
The weird thing is:
 
1) when I am reflecting how I can do my job better, there were many things which I thought I could have do better, but no one said anything about those,except one. He is a officer from my department.
 
2) those which are my core values, I do not think i will shift anytime, many have a opinion. LOL
 
The first thing which I find irksome is “calculative”. I do not believe in taking someone for a ride, but I do think we can never be “fair” in workload.
 
Having to manage that part is rather “bo Liao” and I felt my limited energy can be better served somewhere.
 
I made …