You often think the place that you are going is Utopia, that is, until you reach the place.
Let me ask you a question.
How many times have you look forward to a vacation after a year of slogging at work and after you went and came back and 6 weeks later, you realize there isn’t all that much to that vacation experience?
I bet some of them would have left a deep impression but many of your vacation was not what you expected after all the anticipation.
In life, we often think that something is an extremely good idea, that it is something that we will feel good about, and would be great when you reached it.
Yet they often fall short of our perception. What was original a good idea didn’t work out in real life for us.