Have you ever wondered why you are that someone who never seems to achieve the results you desired in life? You are not a bad person, abide by the law, hardworking and quite intelligent but why is it so, that you are not as successful or even happy in life? Blinded from the TRUTH! Over-reliance on self First and foremost, ask yourself if you are someone who TRULY loves to embrace the TRUTH in life. Or are you someone who has over-indulgence in self-beliefs i.e. own thinking, own experiences, and own will.  You are always so obstinate in what your believe, and relying on your own will and experiences only, rather than putting extra time and effort into delving to the true Root Cause of the problems and learn from the TRUTH with actions? I had known many people who are very nice and soft-spoken outwardly, ......