I have been pondering about this for months. A decision that will affect my family well being.
Background
Currently, my wife and I both are working full time. We should be achieving financial independence by end year 2019 (age 35) but with 1 of us working till year end 2022 (age 38) for buffer. With the arrival of my 2nd child, someone has to take care of him, (baby boy) from next year Aug 17. My wife love her job and her work environment is good. However, my income is higher (I don't hate my job either) but my wife will also enjoy working mother relief n subsidy. Hence, it make more sense for my wife to continue working. So, there is no perfect equation on who should carry on to run the "rat race".
Now, the question is, should I similarly place my 2nd child in the infant ...
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