There’s a difference between surviving and thriving. When you’re surviving, you care only about the bare essentials to maintain status quo. When you’re thriving, you strive to exceed and improve the current situation. Both requires different mentality and preparation. I share with you some examples in our daily lives:

1. Taking care of children

I think I’m still at the surviving mode. I feed, shower, change and make sure the baby is alive. But I wouldn’t go so far to say that I thrive yet. I’m essentially doing the basic things. Now that I’m used to the routine and the demands of taking care of a baby, I must say that it’s getting comfortable. Not comfortable in the sense that it’s easy, but comfortable because I’m habituated into the different task and I’m reasonably skilled in the different skillsets needed. It’s time to go to the next stage where I …