I'm sure many of you have heard of such comments. I cannot imagine... Like long time ago when I was talking with my ex-colleagues and they ask me how I can survive so long without a job. Then I say, well, I don't go far overseas, I don't have a domestic helper, I don't have a car/big car, I don't have a big house, I don't reno much of my house, no luxury bags, items, etc etc... And the comment I usually get is... that they would not live that way. So that's how it usually ends. They aren't willing to give up their material stuff. I'm willing to do certain things to get what I want... I reflect upon things a lot. So when I get negative comments, I try to get some positive return from it. I think about it. What if I'm wrong? Why would someone say something like that... etc... Then I think about it... 3 months ......