2 months ago, I shared that I’ve thought about leaving my first job. 2 months later, I received an offer and I’m torn.

I’m a practical person. At the end of it, a job is just for me to survive – I need a monthly stream of income to build a home, build a family, feed myself and my family, and to save enough for retirement.

So when the offer came, theoretically I should without a doubt accept it, since there was a pay increase. The pay increase isn’t a lot though, but it would still be one two hundred more than what I’ll get next year. But I asked for some time to decide.

The new place would be extremely challenging. The team is practically new because of high turnover. They are still busy filling vacancies. To think positively, a new team might mean everyone starts afresh (or starts equally blur); but there …