Recently I talked to colleague and she told me that she feels that friendships should be build on events like the future and current and not so much on the past.

Like the things that you share and talk about when you meet up should be more of updating your current status and also what your future plans are.

She finds that friendships where the past is always being brought up is not the way it should be.

To be honest, I do agree with her to a certain extent.

For example, my polytechnic friends, every time we meet, we always use the past as the main topic and to be honest, I feel like its a repeat but I do know that its either because everyone’s life is no longer as interconnected as before and sharing our current life and future might seem boring or might be too much.

Of course, it’s always nice