Author: BULLy the BEAR

Surviving vs Thriving part II

I talked about thriving and surviving in this post here. That theme keeps creeping into my mind in the quieter hours and I thought more about it. Decided to post it here to further consolidate my thoughts on this subject matter. There are three categories here: 1) not surviving2) surviving but not thriving3) thriving Basically these are states which describes your level of excess mental and physical energy. Not surviving means you don’t have enough physical and mental energy. Surviving means you just have enough and not much to spare. Thriving means you have more than enough. SYMPTOMS  Those...

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Surviving vs Thriving part II

I talked about thriving and surviving in this post here. That theme keeps creeping into my mind in the quieter hours and I thought more about it. Decided to post it here to further consolidate my thoughts on this subject matter. There are three categories here: 1) not surviving 2) surviving but not thriving 3) thriving Basically these are states which describes your level of excess mental and physical energy. Not surviving means you don’t have enough physical and mental energy. Surviving means you just have enough and not much to spare. Thriving means you have more than enough....

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11 questions from Tribe of mentors

I’m about to start reading on Tim Ferriss’s Tribe of Mentors. If Tools of titans is a great encyclopedia of self help knowledge, I think tribe of mentors wouldn’t do much worse. Tim went ahead to ask several people the same 11 questions, which are listed down below. Since I haven’t start reading, I thought I will try to answer them first so that I get more out of reading what others have to say. So, here’s my answers to the 11 questions: 1, What is the book (or books) you’ve given most as a gift, and why? Or...

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11 questions from Tribe of mentors

I’m about to start reading on Tim Ferriss’s Tribe of Mentors. If Tools of titans is a great encyclopedia of self help knowledge, I think tribe of mentors wouldn’t do much worse. Tim went ahead to ask several people the same 11 questions, which are listed down below. Since I haven’t start reading, I thought I will try to answer them first so that I get more out of reading what others have to say. So, here’s my answers to the 11 questions: 1, What is the book (or books) you’ve given most as a gift, and why? Or...

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Did you give away your equity freely?

I wanted to share this idea regarding child caring. The default way these days is for both parents to work while hiring a foreign domestic worker (or two) to take care of the kids. That is the most economic and financially savvy way. Hiring a domestic worker is much cheaper than going to infant care or child care, and have more utility. That is also the reason (I suspect) why my mum-in-law insists on wanting us to hire one. I vehemently refuse. I seek to explain why here. But let us go to a separate domain of raising capital...

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Did you give away your equity freely?

I wanted to share this idea regarding child caring. The default way these days is for both parents to work while hiring a foreign domestic worker (or two) to take care of the kids. That is the most economic and financially savvy way. Hiring a domestic worker is much cheaper than going to infant care or child care, and have more utility. That is also the reason (I suspect) why my mum-in-law insists on wanting us to hire one. I vehemently refuse. I seek to explain why here. But let us go to a separate domain of raising capital...

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FIRE

Wanted to share my thoughts on what is meant by FIRE. I’ve a disclaimer here – I’ve not read a single piece of literature on this subject matter and I’m simply deconstructing the word based on what I’ve read about the components and piecing it up together. So, if I’m wrong, don’t get so hot and start flaming me and set me on fire for anyhow firing an article on fire. FIRE does not mean financially indebted, retired early. It stands for financially independent, retire early. Let’s break up into the two parts : financially independent and retire early....

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FIRE

Wanted to share my thoughts on what is meant by FIRE. I’ve a disclaimer here – I’ve not read a single piece of literature on this subject matter and I’m simply deconstructing the word based on what I’ve read about the components and piecing it up together. So, if I’m wrong, don’t get so hot and start flaming me and set me on fire for anyhow firing an article on fire. FIRE does not mean financially indebted, retired early. It stands for financially independent, retire early. Let’s break up into the two parts : financially independent and retire early....

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Feed the fish, or fish to feed?

Ever since I became a parent, every day I have to think about choices and its implication. I often wondered about my role as a parent, and thought about whether I am making the right choices right now that might affect my son in the future. So sometimes, I feel guilty that I am relaxing in front of the tv, instead of teaching some stuff to my kid. You know, stuff like that. As a parent, my role to my son is two-fold: 1) Make sure he survives, so that will include feeding, bathing, changing his diaper and be...

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Feed the fish, or fish to feed?

Ever since I became a parent, every day I have to think about choices and its implication. I often wondered about my role as a parent, and thought about whether I am making the right choices right now that might affect my son in the future. So sometimes, I feel guilty that I am relaxing in front of the tv, instead of teaching some stuff to my kid. You know, stuff like that. As a parent, my role to my son is two-fold: 1) Make sure he survives, so that will include feeding, bathing, changing his diaper and be...

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Indifferent to the difference between needs and wants

Today I was chatting with some members in the Bigscribe facebook group regarding fixed and variable income. It’s just the usual banter that happens daily, so it provides an environment where you get saturated with how to build wealth and generally live a good life. Like diffusion and osmosis, you have no choice but to be the average of the 5 people you hang out with. But that’s not the point of this post. I was reflecting on my journey regarding the separation of needs and wants. You know the usual rules when it comes down to controlling expenses,...

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Indifferent to the difference between needs and wants

Today I was chatting with some members in the Bigscribe facebook group regarding fixed and variable income. It’s just the usual banter that happens daily, so it provides an environment where you get saturated with how to build wealth and generally live a good life. Like diffusion and osmosis, you have no choice but to be the average of the 5 people you hang out with. But that’s not the point of this post. I was reflecting on my journey regarding the separation of needs and wants. You know the usual rules when it comes down to controlling expenses,...

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Portfolio sector breakdown

The market had been down in Feb and I had been spending my cash to whittle it down to a manageable level. If not, the cash will be like a runner wearing parachute while running. It’s safe but it’ll drag me down. I took stock of what I had and what the different sector allocation relative to each other. It’s right below in the pie chart. Take note that the percentage is based on capital allocated and not based on market value. You might not agree with how I labelled the different companies in my portfolio though, but that’s...

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Portfolio sector breakdown

The market had been down in Feb and I had been spending my cash to whittle it down to a manageable level. If not, the cash will be like a runner wearing parachute while running. It’s safe but it’ll drag me down. I took stock of what I had and what the different sector allocation relative to each other. It’s right below in the pie chart. Take note that the percentage is based on capital allocated and not based on market value. You might not agree with how I labelled the different companies in my portfolio though, but that’s...

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1 yr of parenthood

My son is almost 1 year old now and we had a small celebration over the past weekend with family. I thought it’s a great time for me to reflect on life as a parent in the past year or so. Here are some thoughts about it: 1) Loss of control of personal time When we go from one stage of life to another, there will bound to be inevitable changes. From singlehood to dating couple, to married couple and eventually to parents…all these are major milestones in life. As a married person without a kid, I think it’s...

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