Author: Rolf Suey - Better Late Than Never

Consider below statement: “As long as I am happy, I do no evil or nothing against law, I am clear conscience to my soul, I will live without regrets each day!” In contemporary society, many will think that the above statement is so true. Is it really true? Happiness Everyone wants to be happy. We make chasing this elusive ideal of happiness a lifelong pursuit. We work hard to earn, and after we earn, we either spent it on ourselves or on others. We collect things and constantly search for new experiences to satisfy our desires. But happiness depends...

Earlier in Part 1, I talk about embracing the truth as one aspect of Good Fruits in Life. In this article, I will mention briefly on the path we should take to enjoy the true good fruits. Desire, discipline and hardwork just a pre-requisite Very often we hear many successful people saying that we ought to have desire and the discipline to achieve the desired positive result. Yes indeed that these attributes are the pre-requisite of the “Good Fruits” in life. Without desire and discipline, it’s like an engine that is obsolete and cannot even start! Then you need...

Have you ever wondered why you are that someone who never seems to achieve the results you desired in life? You are not a bad person, abide by the law, hardworking and quite intelligent but why is it so, that you are not as successful or even happy in life? Blinded from the TRUTH! Over-reliance on self First and foremost, ask yourself if you are someone who TRULY loves to embrace the TRUTH in life. Or are you someone who has over-indulgence in self-beliefs i.e. own thinking, own experiences, and own will.  You are always so obstinate in what...

Is the world a becoming a much better place to live? Errr…..maybe: Yes, if you are more concern about material success where personal pleasure pride and ego matters a lot to you. No, if you prefer righteousness, compassion for others, peacefulness and joy. If you belong to the “No” camp, then this article will be relatively easier to comprehend. If you are the “Yes” camp, hopefully this article can change your perception, even if it’s effect is comparable to a mustard seed. Is money root cause of all evil? So what is the root cause of all evil? I...

I received a comment in my earlier blog post Happiness Vs True Happiness, from a reader. Below is the comment, which inspired me for writing this post. Hi Rolf, always enjoyed your enlightening posts. This post is something I have been struggling with as well. I work in the banking industry and it is a very dog eat dog* world.  I have been backstabbed many times until I have learnt to guard against others. And have become sceptical, selfish and hostile to some people. To be honest I feel that even if I am nice to these people they will...

This post is inspired by fellow blogger, LP’s latest post where he used mathematical examples to exemplify why the journey is more important than the outcome and that our mind is the determinant of that. Refer to here. Excerpts: “I have 3 million dollars, but I lost 1 million dollars, so I still have 2 million dollars. I might go jump down. If I have 1 million dollar and I made another million, I now have 2 million dollars, instead I jump for joy. The former makes me jump down, the latter makes me jump up, possibly with fist...

Despite the many problems I have in work mainly due to the O&G sector woes, I have never feel so good before in my personal life. So much so that I start to realize what is the difference between Happiness and True Happiness. My philosophy is…. Happiness means having strong relationships with your family members and only people extremely close to you. True Happiness on the other hand means attaining “happiness” and at the same time care and help your neighbors and strangers who are in need of help. Let me explained briefly here… Minding other’s business? Hmm….. this...