Author: Rolf Suey - Better Late Than Never

Headship or leadership is very important in our lives. A country needs a good President/Prime minister and government to lead. A company needs a good CEO and the management team to lead. A household also requires good husband and wife to lead so that the family stays intact without going astray.  Consider a human body, the head is over all the rest of the members of the body. The head is where the mind is, and has direct connection with each member of the body. When the head fails, the members of the body falls apart. Many people want...

A lot of times, we upgrade ourselves by learning a new skill in order to be more knowledgeable. We tend to focus on what the “upgrade” can do for us externally. For instance, the focus is to have a pay raise, to receive a promotion, to get a better job or maybe even because it is fun and interesting. This type of “upgrade” is usually an “outside in” changes. It is normally temporary. The most important change is normally not to externally add a skill to achieve a “job title promotion or salary increase”. It is to change the way we think. In...

It’s been awhile since I last blogged. Apparently, this is only my 6th article this year. During my blogging heydays, regularly 6 or more articles per month is commonplace. Anyway a lot of good things take place since 1 year ago. I reckon I did not miss much, except for the missing all my blogger friends, my loyal readers or even for those who do not really like my blog. :-) My life was completely transformed since 1 year ago. It is as if it is no longer I who live. That the spirit of life and truth is...

Consider below statement: “As long as I am happy, I do no evil or nothing against law, I am clear conscience to my soul, I will live without regrets each day!” In contemporary society, many will think that the above statement is so true. Is it really true? Happiness Everyone wants to be happy. We make chasing this elusive ideal of happiness a lifelong pursuit. We work hard to earn, and after we earn, we either spent it on ourselves or on others. We collect things and constantly search for new experiences to satisfy our desires. But happiness depends...

Earlier in Part 1, I talk about embracing the truth as one aspect of Good Fruits in Life. In this article, I will mention briefly on the path we should take to enjoy the true good fruits. Desire, discipline and hardwork just a pre-requisite Very often we hear many successful people saying that we ought to have desire and the discipline to achieve the desired positive result. Yes indeed that these attributes are the pre-requisite of the “Good Fruits” in life. Without desire and discipline, it’s like an engine that is obsolete and cannot even start! Then you need...

Have you ever wondered why you are that someone who never seems to achieve the results you desired in life? You are not a bad person, abide by the law, hardworking and quite intelligent but why is it so, that you are not as successful or even happy in life? Blinded from the TRUTH! Over-reliance on self First and foremost, ask yourself if you are someone who TRULY loves to embrace the TRUTH in life. Or are you someone who has over-indulgence in self-beliefs i.e. own thinking, own experiences, and own will.  You are always so obstinate in what...