So on Wednesday, I wrote about being thankful for my jobs past and present to motivate myself through work. While being thankful, I don’t want to stay addicted to the perks of job and forget my long terms aspiration.

Since today is Friday, it’s time to think far about where I want to be years down the road. When I was an engineering consultant, climbing up some towers, I told myself I don’t want to be climbing towers when I am in my 40s. I am glad before 40, I left that job.

Now with 3 years before I hit the 40 year old mark, there are other things that I want to change. When I am in my 40s, I don’t want to ask for permission to take leave. I want to be able to spend birthdays with my family and heck the important business stuff.

So while I recently said I aspire to do nothing,