I met up with an ex-colleague last week. My tale of meet ups let me know that they would usually come in bunches. But they are purely coincidental. We try to find patterns where there usually isn’t. My ex-colleague wanted to carry on a previous conversation we have about money. The last time we actually message was about 2 years ago. We would usually meet up with another ex-colleague of mine. The three of us happen to be mutual friends, joint up awkwardly due to mutual circumstances. “Sure, I am open to meeting up. We can do it next week or…. I think this Friday I am likely available as well.” “I think it is better if we meet up this week.” Whoa. I was taken aback how urgent this seem to look. I hope there isn’t anything bad happening with the family. I found out there was nothing of that sort when we met up for dinner on Friday....