Where do you get your confidence from often?
I think more than often, a lot of us get our confidence from our successes at work.
If we excel in our jobs, we get recognised by our colleagues and superiors. Over time, we get promoted and gain more and more monetary rewards.
That success is like a suit of armour that we wore daily when we are navigating the challenges at work, in different social settings.
That armour helps you to navigate reunion meetups with your university and secondary friends much easier during those earlier years when all your friends discuss was where each of you are and got in their careers.
The armour stands between you and a complete loss of confidence in what you have achieved, which would have made living life much more difficult.
For some like myself, we did relatively ok at work but if we didn’t climb as fast in...