Dear Readers,

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If you are like me, we all love to say we are the certain type of person or not the certain type of person, like we can just define ourselves and change our circumstances.

But we cannot.

First of all, we are all multi-faceted. We probably do not have accurate assessment of ourselves.

Secondly, we don’t have much control. We are just passengers in the ship of Fate.

As a result, the only thing we get by “defining ourselves” is excuses to limit ourselves.

And this type of excuses work particularly well on our mind.

For example, “I am not the greedy type of person” is the perfect excuse to avoid trying everything, while one still can, to achieve the goals, with peace of mind.

For example, “I am the hard-working type of person” is the perfect