My youngest turned one a few months back. As I see how his elder brother and sister enjoy playing and being his leader ( I simply mean bossing him around), I thought for a moment whether it would be great for him to have another sibling. This was a a decision that I made for my eldest and second one. And the decision came easily then.  But for this time round I was hesitant. True enough the baby bonus, and CDA benefits are great for 4th child. Though there will be no additional tax benefit for me since I hit the limit. But, these benefits to me, are ' side effects' to my decision. They are never part of my decision. During the pandemic, I got lots of time with the kids. But I also realized it was just tough to give all of them attention at the same time....