Thank you for coming here!
Life goes on and shit jumps in all the time.
All the while, I have had no problem delivering work, but I have been really bad in caring about how people think about me.
I think that is the reason why I get frustrated and repel away the promotions that seems so rightfully mine.
However, recently I got feedback that I was too nice to push through certain things.
Though it came as somewhat a surprise, the feedback made total sense.
I have been too passive in certain meetings just to avoid conflict. The potential cost is slow progress.
I say “potential” because I really cannot be sure about the outcome if I have pushed aggressively.
Possibly, things get done.
Also possibly, I encounter greater push back and the relationship gets affected, which results