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Dear Readers,

Thank you for coming here!

Life goes on and shit jumps in all the time.

All the while, I have had no problem delivering work, but I have been really bad in caring about how people think about me.

I think that is the reason why I get frustrated and repel away the promotions that seems so rightfully mine.

However, recently I got feedback that I was too nice to push through certain things.

Though it came as somewhat a surprise, the feedback made total sense.

I have been too passive in certain meetings just to avoid conflict. The potential cost is slow progress.

I say “potential” because I really cannot be sure about the outcome if I have pushed aggressively.

Possibly, things get done.

Also possibly, I encounter greater push back and the relationship gets affected, which results