Most people would prefer to spend on their own family than on others. Many would talk a good game during gatherings about the good investments they made, what they managed to buy, and the bump in salary they got from a recent career switch. If you try to borrow money from them, you will see their faces change. Those far richer would rather be quieter because they do not wish too many to know their actual wealth. After all, if others know about it, many people will come to bug them. There can be a lot of reasons why they are reluctant to help, and the main one might be they are coming to terms with what they have and are not sure how much they can help without affecting their own family. But for some who became financially independent, with wealth more than what they need, the second part...