If you are a man with more than a million dollars to your name, will you choose to flaunt your wealth? By which, I mean dress up to the nines, spot a Rolex on your wrist and stay in landed housing.  You get around in a BMW 7 Series, hang out at the country club and play golf for leisure.  You dine at fancy restaurants, attend gala dinners and never shy away from a photo for the Singapore Tatler magazine. Box seats at the Formula One race.  Long holidays in Europe.  Rub noses with society's most influential figures.  These are part and parcel of your lifestyle. Do you love such a life? To be honest, I do not. Granted, I once subscribe to the notion that having riches means living the "good" life.  I fantasized about owning an Audi A5 Sportsback, traveling first class, staying ......