For most of us, we would possess both a mixture of things that we look forward to and things that we don't look forward to in our everyday lives. For instance, I would most certainly not look forward to going to work on Monday and facing those daunting emails. On the contrary, I look forward to things like weekends or going home from work so that I can play with my son. These are just the most direct day to day events that I am going through right now.   The thing with going through events that we are not looking forward to is that life suddenly becomes a drag and meaningless. It is like waiting for those moments to pass by and if you'd be given a remote control that you can fast forward the time, you'd take it straight away. Life would be deemed colorless. Of course, the argument is that no human beings can sustain a life ......