Check out this
NUSWhispers post from a girl who’s torn between two guys:
- Guy A: A rich gentleman who drives a BMW and wines and dines her at restaurants
- Guy B: Her boyfriend who’s serving his NS and takes her to Swensens and Ajisen
On the surface, it’s easy to judge the girl for even
thinking of leaving her current boyfriend. How ungrateful! He’s doing his best to save money now to afford a BTO!
But if we dig a little deeper, maybe it’s not as straightforward as it seems. In fact, money plays a bigger role in our relationships than we’d like to admit. For example:
- What should you do when you and your partner have very different saving priorities?
- Should you spend on a lavish wedding (knowing that it’s important to your wife and family), or save up for more practical things like your future flat?
- When you’re married, does romance ...
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