Today I was chatting with some members in the Bigscribe facebook group regarding fixed and variable income. It’s just the usual banter that happens daily, so it provides an environment where you get saturated with how to build wealth and generally live a good life. Like diffusion and osmosis, you have no choice but to be the average of the 5 people you hang out with.

But that’s not the point of this post. I was reflecting on my journey regarding the separation of needs and wants. You know the usual rules when it comes down to controlling expenses, that gurus will first ask you to list down your needs and your wants. By strictly managing between your needs and wants, you can reduce your expenses. I’ve nothing against this, and I’ve also done this before, but no longer do that anymore.

So why is that so?

In this particular …